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Teacup Storms and How to Avoid Them
"I SHAN'T play any more in your yard," was the refrain of a charming song,
which was very typical of the child who does not, after all, like the way
the game is played, so it "cuts off its nose to spite its face," and goes
and tries for another game elsewhere, or goes and "tells Mother."
It makes the grown-up onlooker smile, but the grown-up himself is not
always free from the same sort of self-centred conceit.
I have frequently figured in the part of "mother," and it is almost beyond
belief that grown-up, or nearly grown-up, men can take little matters so
seriously and so narrowly as some of them do. If they had only a sense of
humour, or had a slightly wider range of view, so that they could see the
other side of the question or its greater aim, they, too, would smile at the
littleness of it all.
It reminds one so much of what one feels on returning from our big, open
Empire into the little old island and finding here our politicians tearing
each other's eyes out over some defect in the parish pump ! They do not
realise that their little word-war is only laughed at by the onlookers
outside.
They probably feel quite hurt when they die because they are not buried in
Westminster Abbey under the label of "Statesman," but are only sized up as
"Petty Politicians,"
As "mother" I was appealed to the other day in a case which was evidently
considered of vast importance by the contending parties, but which would
have seemed ridiculously simple to an outsider who saw both sides and the
higher motive which was supposed to be their joint aim.
My reply to them was one which might apply to many similar cases where the
contestants cannot at once see the right line to take. It was this:
"It is curious to me that men who profess to be good Christians often forget,
in a difficulty of this kind, to ask themselves the simple question, 'What
would Christ have done under the circumstances ? ' and be guided accordingly."
Try it next time you are in any difficulty or doubt as to how to proceed.
In the earlier days of our Movement there were many of the little local rows
which are really incidental to most committees, and which would never occur
if the members could remember their duty and to take the above line. Of late,
however, those debating societies seem to have died down and given place to
co-operative councils for mutual advice and help, and all goes well.
March, 1911.
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